About Intimacy

What is your understanding of the the word intimacy? Most people would say that intimacy is related to sexuality, sex and passion. Partly the answer is correct. A part of intimacy is certainly sexuality, passion and sex. However, intimacy is something much greater and deeper. Intimacy is the ability to surrender to another person, to grow absolute...

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Festive time - time for internal shifts

4 commitments Christmas Eve and then Christmas. For many the most beautiful time of the year. The time that we spend with our loved ones. When we exchange gifts in the form of packages under the christmas tree, the time for affection, and attention that we give to each other. The time to  remember the value of people we spend our lives with...

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The right time to leave

At first I felt anger, followed by shock, deep disappointment and finally I was overwhelmed by a strange mixture of pain in my heart and then… RELIEF… We fought in front of our children again. They were 3 and 1 year old. He accused me of cheating on him and started insulting me. I don’t remember what the topic of our dispute was, but I do remember...

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Growing up with a narcissistic parent

If you are the child of a narcissistic parent (one or both) you have endured a lot during your growing up. Your childhood was full of struggles that children from families with a healthy climate did not know. Maybe you even envied one of them and quietly wished you could live just like them. Carefree, playful, mischievous, especially in a warm and...

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Sideways on the recovery path from narcissistic abuse

Recovering from narcissistic abuse is a difficult and challenging ordeal. Along the way, many people wish they could leave their painful past behind as soon as possible and live a life worthy of a human being. To be able to wake up to a new bright reality in which there is no emotional pain, no confusion, anxiety and depression. A reality where there...

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